How to prepare for a wedding and what are the relevant questions to ask:

Here are some of the ideas that did wonders to my wedding and I am sharing it with you right before you start planning:

I can say that loud that for wedding planning you can quit your job! I almost did when I was frustrated with the planning not going my way.

Always try to get him, your future husband silly! involved in the wedding as that is almost the most hard part because generally guys go with flow but you need the support and the occasional suggestion and the biggest one is that you need his attention and morale boost from time to time. It is the journey about doing things together and you should enjoy having the wedding planning together.

Here is my quick list of questions that we asked ourselves for the getaway wedding and I believe this helped us a lot and I believe it will benefit my readers too.

1) Select a destination

What is the destination where you want to get that beautiful wedding ceremony?
Do you know of the wedding requirements that you need to have in terms of getting the marriage license?
Are you getting married in the United States?
If yes, then call the county marriage license bearue and get all details about the birth certificates, divorce proof and also all sorts of health tests?
Best time of the year to get married?
Have you take into account the weather?
Can we avail of the off season discounts in some cases?

2) Select a wedding style or as the planners select a wedding theme?

What is your wedding theme?
What kind of the wedding will you have a simple cake and champagne party or a seated dinner and dancing reception?
Are you planning a do it yourself type thing or are you opting for the services of a wedding planner?
Are you still going to have the on site wedding coordinator from the resort or the hotel?
Will the wedding coordinator be there to help you and answer guest’s questions on the wedding day itself?


3) Guest List

What is the number if guests that you are planning to invite?
Who will pay for their airfare and accommodations? Will you in full or will you the part of the expenses?
When will you send out the save the date cards? Very important if you want to have a wedding that will make sure that the guests have time to plan for their travel and the accommodation arrangements?
Who will take care of things that need to be shipped back home because you will have wed and no longer be able to take care of these for a day or two and may be more based on the wedding dates and plans


4) Things to know about the wedding venue

Find out how many weddings are taking place at your same wedding venue?
That will help in case your decorations interfere with others?
Things that you need to do at the venue itself?
How many days in advance will you need to reach the venue ?
Are children allowed at the venue?
Is this an all inclusive venue? That will mean honeymoon and wedding togtreher? Good for you ;-)


5) Things to wedding consultants?
Doers the wedding consultant has prior experience?
Has he done weddings at this venue before ?

Hmm abig list of questions? I already feel stressed out remembering what happened at my wedding but the best part is that it has been done with and over and I am happy I repaying that back?

Till next post keep planning brides!! !