my first post for my wedding planning

I am Stressed out already thinking about wedding planning

The most exciting and the most harrowing time has been when I was planning my wedding and you just cannot believe the stress and the anger that I went through when I was planning for the marriage.

Yes this statement above is partly true and the reason is not far from that. I started lurking out in the internet sites finding out all about the wedding planners and the people who make their living helping people who are stressed out people like me and that in turn helped me a lot in understanding what my needs are for the wedding.

In general all those wedding planners take about two years booking in advance and hence my stress levels rise because mine is in less than a year.

Before I go any further and explain how that is now relevant and not so relevant from the stand point of how I will be getting married then here are tow or three things which me and my boyfriend had to decided and these are

1) We decided that we will be our wedding designers and that meant that we will be using some our own creativity along with that of the planner to get that special thing in the wedding which is the uniqueness of the wedding.
2) Next came the type of wedding to be chosen and that was hard as that meant that we need to decide the location and the it finally boiled to down to beach wedding, church wedding and also the garden wedding.
3) We also had to choose between the wedding place and that was not easy as I come from Philippines and then my husband is from USA and hence the choice was to have the wedding in Arizona, or a beach wedding in the Caribbean Islands or have the wedding in Mauritius. After a lot of debate we decided that we need to have the wedding in the Mauritius and looking back I feel that we have done right things as the Philippines marriage would have been never turned out the way the Beach Wedding Mauritius turned out to be.

How Was I feeling – On cloud nine with nothing close to as romantic as it is to have a beach wedding and then walk along your husbands on the moonlit beach? Those are stories that you read in the romantic novels and hence it was turning out to be much more romantic..